That really irritates me!

Have you thought about what you don't like, what annoys you, or even makes you angry in your field?

Now, on the spot, these two aspects came to my mind.

I'm tired of hearing that we don't have money for something we'd like to do. We all know deep down that for what is important to us, we find money, no matter how much, no matter how. Maybe sometimes sooner, maybe sometimes later, but we find it.

Let's be authentic day in and day out - when you don't want to do something, don't feel like doing something, aren't interested, aren't drawn to it, say so! That's right!

Say it authentically (speak your mind), but yes, without the intention of hurting the person in front of you. This is where the difference is made. This is the aspect we often miss and, because the person in front of us hardly receives what we say, we conclude that "people can't handle the truth". People can't stand being attacked. So, tell the person in front of you honestly, talking only about yourself, that at least at this moment, you are not interested in what they are proposing. Don't attack him, his domain etc, talk to him about what you think. Authentically.

Another thing for which I have little understanding is the use of English words, or even a kind of translation of them, when in Romanian there is already an equivalent, or even has always existed. And don't forget, I'm basically a teacher of English. Why do we need to say "English class or aerobics class or nutrition class" as a translation of a class of English? In English there has always been English class, aerobics class, nutrition class or even course (although, yes, it does induce the idea of several classes).

Write to me here or privately, but write to me. It may be something that's been running through your mind for years and blocking you from really important actions.

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